How deep is your love?
Saturday, December 16, 2006
You must be wondering why I am posting such stuff, but hey, don't you ask yourself these questions sometimes?
(1) Can you be in love with more than one person at the same time?
Hmm~ I read this somewhere and I think it's kinda true. You can be in love with more than one person at a time, but only one can be the one that you really love. It maybe tough to determine who you really like but I guess you have to find out anywayz~ Right? Lol~
I read also read the following somewhere online, so feel free to read this abstract.
(2) What is love(BGR terms)?
Love is based on more than just physical attraction. It is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love should be a positive feeling.
Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. It should make you want to be a better person. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the sappiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?
There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with 7 of the following 9 statements you are probably in love.
You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.
When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.
Well, so are you in love?
I think I can add a no.10 to the statements above: If you love him/her, you would be able to tolerate everything about him. However, it's rather unwise to be too blind in love. Sometimes women see too much good in their men even though they had done terrible things to them.
Ok, I am super hungry now, think I'm going to get some snacks.. Love and bread, which one would you choose? Kekeke~ Super off right? Just when you are pondering about these things, I have to say that I am hungry: So typical of Jo right? *Yea, I heard that*
