To be happier
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
To be happy, you must have good relationships with your family and friends, or engage in hobbies. Romance is also not a bad thing. You must also have a meaning in life, like religion, philosophy and spirituality.Finally, you must have goal in your life and be happy working towards this goal in life. This is what I've learnt in pyschology class, and I hope everyone finds it helpful.
I think most importantly, you have to be optimistic in life. For me, I can be extremes on both optimism and pessimism.
So what have I acheived in life?
1) I have a couple of excellent friends.
2) I have many good friends
3) I am close to my sisters, I think. Heh, but not that close to Dad, for some reasons.
4) I love my Mum, but I know that I am kinda rude to her sometimes la. =P
5) I love to hate my brother, but since he's such a dear nowadays, I sort of changed my attitude towards him.. Where's my Milo bro?
6) I have a bf who dotes on me
7) Hobbies include watching anime and drama series?
8) Meaning in life. This one is kinda hard..... spirituality? Hmmm, I can't say that I am a devotee in Christianity. Philosophy in life: Contentment is bliss.
9) Goals in life? I want to open a cafe or start a business!!!
These may all change, I guess. When you change with age, you will change your thoughts.
My only problems now are:
1) My degree class
2) Not enough money to spend
3) Not enough money to buy a house
4) Not being able to concentrate on studies, which is too late now la...
So I guess I need to find a part time job somehow before I start my actual work.... *Sigh*
